Pretending you are rich
Never forget that these girls are working… they stay with you because they believe they will get something from you, so if you show off, you are likely to pay more.
Falling in love
Girls working in bars are human beings and have feelings, nevertheless, it should be reminded that it is very unlikely that you will have a normal relationship with a bar girl / ex-bar girls has their prime motivation is and will always remain money.
There is a famous quote: "You can remove the girl from the bar, but you cannot remove the bar from the girl"
Going to a bar where you have picked up a girl recently, and picking another girl
As weird as it can sound many Gogo girls have a high sense of ownership concerning their clients, and if you pick up a new girl from the same bar it is likely this will create a fuss.
Paying money before the service is done
This is the best way to get the worst service ever from a girl, as the money is already in her pocket and in her mind her job is already done.
Sending money from abroad
Whether her buffalo/dog/mother/father/brother/sister is sick, this is 99% chance a scam to extort money from you.
Expecting your holiday girlfriend picked up in a bar to remain faithful after your departure
Sorry to be the party pooper, you may have had a wonderful experience with your bar girl who became your regular date during your two weeks holidays but very likely for her you are just one of many. That does not mean she did not like you, but working in a bar is a business, and as much as she may have cried bringing you to the airport, she will very likely repeat the same experience with another guy just few days after you left.
Bringing back a freelance from the street to your hotel
Freelance girls are usually girls who can no longer work in a bar, either because they have too much addiction problem, behavior issues or worst: diseases. We really do not recommend to pick up freelance girls, but if you do so, please make sure to protect Willy, even more than with any other bar girls, but also keep in mind that while you will be asleep she might steal your money and disappear. Risks with a girl you have picked up in bar are minimal, because if such case happen you would know where to find her.
Considering your only option to have a relationship with a girl is with prostitutes
Say no to prostitution! Seriously speaking, getting girls in bars or clubs is what most tourists do, but frankly speaking that may not be your best option, as girls are really after your money in these kind of places. A good alternative is the online dating. It gives the opportunity to meet some genuine girls willing to meet foreigners living in Thailand or abroad. Out of these dating websites, you can meet girls who could potentially be a good girlfriend or if you are not into finding love, some girls who are just willing to have a bit of good time with you as long as you treat them right.
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